Relationship is a word that has various meanings, the relationship between a mother and her son, a relationship between a brother and a sister, a relationship between a boss and his employee, and a love relationship between two people are few of its kind. Everything that we hold onto in life is in some way or the other related to these relations. We work, we study, we play, we do all kinds of things with the people that we love to be around. Some relationships are beyond explanation and some don't need any. We might not understand what is going on in a person's mind, but we can definitely figure out things by observing his behavior. We are not immediately comfortable with a strange person and rightly so because we have no idea about how that person is and how their personality is going to be. We all don't mingle up with people that comfortably, it depends on our personalities and how the opposite person is. We know that different people have different personalities, different nature, different tastes, it is not always that people who find each other attractive, find their tastes and personalities matching. I am not going to go into scientific research of why it is so or any such stuff, but it is generally said that people with opposite personalities end up together and form a very compatible pair. This can be rightly justified by many examples and no science needed.
When a person starts to ignore his relations in life and starts giving priority to other things, he is probably doing this because suddenly his priorities and dreams have taken over his thoughts. We all are busy in our own lives and we all have dreams that we wish to fulfil, but it should never come at the cost of our relations. Your parents, siblings, your girlfriend, boyfriend, friends, these are the people in your life who really matter. What would you do with a million dollar house when you don't have your loved ones to live in with? I would rather prefer having a small condo around the beach where I can gather around with my family and loved ones and have a good time. It depends on what your choices are in life and what you wish to pursue. Relations are a sweet hold of your life, no matter what situation you are into, even in your rough times, you can always depend on these relations. Materialistic things, money, they are more of a need than your priority. But unfortunately some people make it their priority and end up regretting.
Make yourself a promise, before you decide what your priorities are and what you want to do with your life, just take some time to think about where you would be if it wasn't for your loved ones. We all make wrong choices in life but very few get a chance to correct these choices. We need to think twice before we take any major decisions in life. We all know that money can buy you material happiness, you can have luxurious cars, beautiful houses and can attend fancy parties if you are able to join a high end club. Everybody loves to own the fantasies and be rich, but we always forget what we are letting go off in order to fulfill our desires.
When a person starts to ignore his relations in life and starts giving priority to other things, he is probably doing this because suddenly his priorities and dreams have taken over his thoughts. We all are busy in our own lives and we all have dreams that we wish to fulfil, but it should never come at the cost of our relations. Your parents, siblings, your girlfriend, boyfriend, friends, these are the people in your life who really matter. What would you do with a million dollar house when you don't have your loved ones to live in with? I would rather prefer having a small condo around the beach where I can gather around with my family and loved ones and have a good time. It depends on what your choices are in life and what you wish to pursue. Relations are a sweet hold of your life, no matter what situation you are into, even in your rough times, you can always depend on these relations. Materialistic things, money, they are more of a need than your priority. But unfortunately some people make it their priority and end up regretting.
Make yourself a promise, before you decide what your priorities are and what you want to do with your life, just take some time to think about where you would be if it wasn't for your loved ones. We all make wrong choices in life but very few get a chance to correct these choices. We need to think twice before we take any major decisions in life. We all know that money can buy you material happiness, you can have luxurious cars, beautiful houses and can attend fancy parties if you are able to join a high end club. Everybody loves to own the fantasies and be rich, but we always forget what we are letting go off in order to fulfill our desires.
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